It doesn’t seem possible that a week ago today we were visiting our family who live in France. Although it rained EVERY day for most of the day, it was great to spend time with the family, especially since I knew it would probably be about six months before we saw them again. At the end of our stay, leaving was hard. Saying goodbye to the grandchildren, who are aged 14 and 11 brought a tear to my eye. They are growing up so quickly that it seems like the blink of an eye; we were changing nappies, potty training, and playing games of let’s pretend that Lenny the Lizard in Portugal had stowed away in our suitcase and come on vacation. It just so happened a lizard appeared on a rock in their garden so …
My Favourite Dog



It doesn’t seem possible that their dog —a blue merle —is eight and shows no sign of slowing down. He is such an intelligent dog and loves to play. While I will miss his constant requests to play ball, I won’t miss his strong doggy smell when his long, shaggy coat gets wet.
Karaoke and Jive
While we were there, we went to a karaoke night at a restaurant called Cascade. I have never tried Karaoke, and I doubt I will do so again. But there I was, performing a French duet karaoke! I confess I was very tipsy. And, as the music moved on to another song, a young man asked me to dance the rock jive. ERm… I surprised myself and Mr. Piglet, with my agility as my partner twirled me this way and that. I struggle to walk and have balance issues at times, so I was also surprised I managed to stay upright. Apparently, dance is good for the brain! And wine is good for silencing any inhibitions.
OMG, the CAKES
Playing Chess
In an attempt to separate our grandson from his PlayStation 5, we encouraged him to play board and card games. Well sort of. Mr. P challenged him to a game of chess, and despite not playing since he was at school, he was rather surprised when he won both games.

Halloween
Once home, we quickly got back into the groove and got ready for the hoards of trick-or-treaters. I tasked Mr. P to buy a pumpkin. He came home with one the size of a large orange and about as much use as a **@#! chocolate t-pot. Sigh….

I rest my case
Last year we were mobbed by children and ran out of goodies, so this year I bought lots of sweets. However, because we had no street light, our outside lights had fused, and the wind kept blowing out the Halloween candle outside our gate to let children know we were willing to play, our house was in darkness. Needless to say, I must have been the only witch on Halloween to mount her broomstick and go find the trick-or-treaters to give them sweets.
Oh, and I didn’t waste the pumpkin and made soup. More about that on Foodie Friday
All Saints’ Day — Dia de Todos os Santos
In Portugal, All Saints’ Day — Dia de Todos os Santos — is celebrated on November 1st. It’s a national public holiday, meant to honour all saints, known and unknown.
Traditionally, people visit cemeteries to clean and decorate the graves of loved ones with flowers, especially chrysanthemums. It’s more about remembrance than festivity — quiet, family-centred, often followed by a shared meal. I like this.
In some regions, children go door to door saying “Pão por Deus” (literally “bread for God”), a bit like trick-or-treating but older and gentler — they’re given small gifts like cakes, nuts, or sweets.
Sad News
Talking of remembering the dead, I was sad to read that one of our dear blogging friends, Trent McDonald Of Trents World, sadly passed away. Trent was a regular on WeekendCoffeeShare and shared the Weekly Smile
Their sudden passing made me pause to reflect. None of us knows what is before us, and we should try to live each moment to the full.
That’s it for this week, folks. See y’all next week.

I’m sorry to hear about your friend. Rest in peace, Trent.
That dog is a cute one, and your dancing night sounds like great fun!
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Hi Tracy. Yes, Trent’s passing came as a shock.
Yep, Sami the dog is a cutie that melts your heart … and as for dancing. I LOVE to dance!
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Glad you had a good time and got to dance well 🙂
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It’s just a shame it will be such a long time before we see them again! The dancing was a bonus.
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I laughed when you mentioned the pumpkin. My step dad once did something similar to my mom. My mom tasked him to go buy a bag of carrots. He came home with a bunch of carrots with the green part still attached to the top. Let’s just say that was followed with a heated argument. I still remember it because to this day, my mom refuses to make me forget it.
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I don’t think men listen, Yinglan. OR… at least reasoned that the speciment he came home with was not suitable to make a lantern with.
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Haha! I think men just think differently than women.
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Just read your first post in over a year . . . well, have ‘caught up’ in a few areas – OMG the kids were way younger !!! Am not all that interested in karaoke, but, in spite of similar mobility issues to you, could probably still jive with a partner whose moves I knew 🙂 ! A few prior glasses of wine would provide stability, I’m sure! Halloween is not a ‘thing’ in Australia either tho’ I had huge fun following John Rieber’s posts from New York !!! And I know the ‘Day of the Dead’ from the late and beloved and missed Victoria Challancin’s “Flavors of the Sun’ from Mexico. . . . glad I am reading your posts again . . .
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Hi Eha, I am so pleased we have reconnected after all this time. Pure luck you found me via Johan’s blog as he is a recent subscriber. Mobility issues are pain as my brain still wants to all the things I used to, You probably are the same.
I wonder why Halloween is not a thing in Australia,
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We only had a couple of trick or treaters and I’m not as resourceful as you, so we still have a lot of sweets left. The walking group will probably loose filling on them! Well done for jiving xx
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Hi Jo, I will have to find a home for all the remaining sweets we have so I don’t get tempted to snack on them. Far too tempting.
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Thanks for sharing your adventure, and so sorry to hear about Trent…I didn’t follow him so don’t know his work but it seems he left a great legacy…
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Hi John, yes, the news re Trent tooki me by surprise as he was always off hiking, running or whatever.
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We become friends with the bloggers we interact with a lot, and even if you’ve never met them, you KNOW them…so it’s truly a sad loss of a friend
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I’m happy you enjoyed good times in France with family, Carole. I’ve sung karaoke a few times in the past – not well, but it was fun. Here in South Texas, and across the border in Mexico, Nov 1 and 2 are dia de las muertos, (day of the dead). It’s basically the same as what you’ve described there.
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Hi Terry, I enjoyed the karaoke but I feel sorry for the audience LoL I wish I could sing. I won’t be repeating the experience in Portugal.
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